Here is a discussion we had about Boys and Girls (what else when I'm around !) On another thread That A95 was also involved.
My dear fellow Tamil &the odd sinhala who wants to marry a tamil) brothers
(if youre married Pls move on)
listen and listen up good. there might be some bad news if youre NOT yet in a commited realtionship!
I am not sure about the Singhala girls, but we Tamil girls don't like ?living as husband and wives? before getting married legally. LOL,
Glad i escaped!
if a sinhalese gal can give her opinion then the young Brothers from Both communities can sit together and Proceed on a long term solution.
ananda95 can comment on this
at this point A95 jumped in and confirmed the sinhala point of view.
well Brothers from both ethnic groups
bad news has been confirmed. both sinhala and tamil girls are very much alike when it comes to premarital Sex so youre ona shaky wicket to start batting.Not that there is anything wrong with Holding back. Holding back something for after marriage is definitelyu a good thing and if you take a look at OUR society and how they view women who have had a BF before its perfectly understandable.
Boys will have fun like there is no tomorrow but when it comes to marriage we dont want the girl who we marry to have had any other realtionships generally speaking. I think this is changing with women having a lot more power but still along way to go.
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