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socialite
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24 Jul 2005 05:32:20 GMT Report for Abuse
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| Very good kadiya, and how should sinhalese and tamil children live? i guess hiding your children in the house and not letting them have any friends of the opposite sex till they get married so that they never become independent adults or learn how to socialise ought to do it,children who are brought up that way become ignorant adults,women who stay at home without a voice with their heads bent low and men who make the money so they think they know it all even though most of them dont know anything, why would a man want a wife who cant even socialise with people and runs to the kitchen whenever another man walks into the house? these westernised international school children grow up to be well rounded adults where both men and women can walk into a room of a hundred people and carry on conversations, that is to be valued in the world today. |
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24 Jul 2005 05:41:52 GMT Report for Abuse
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| Wacko and keshi, 2 people who actually make sense in all this mad dialogue, some people are just stupid! |
dumindak
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24 Jul 2005 08:36:44 GMT Report for Abuse
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Everything in your reply has a value, but it came too late, after the discussion is over.
Dear Socialate
you should be proud of your parents who showed you the limit and prevented you from falling into traps.Old days people make mistakes and learn, but these days we cant learn that way. we have to learn without making mistake, that is where the parents have a role. once we make the mistake we cant get back what we lost.
I think in Sri Lanka parents are totally misguided, they dont have any clue of what they should do,rich and poor alike. Most of them are in both extreame.I am really amased to see the ignorance of many people in this forum, bashing other people as narrow minded.
Hope you will bring up your children also the same way you have been brought up, you will be happy when you see them happy
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24 Jul 2005 18:10:22 GMT Report for Abuse
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| Socialite makes some good and pretty well resoned points in her posts. Kadiya does indeed sound like a bit of an uneducated whack job. The kids who turn out bad quite often are the ones whose parents shower them with money and don't give a crap what they do. Unfortunately these parents tend to be too involved in their own rather laughable 'high society' lives amd let their kids run amuck. Its not the money in itself that causes the problem, since i know of many of the richest families in the country whose kids are doing great. |
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25 Jul 2005 05:04:20 GMT Report for Abuse
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Socialite well-said, you're absoultely right! Panpan, I think you replied for dumindaK and Kadiya on behalf of me, thanks!
Just who the hell is Kadiya? He sounds pathetic and moreover his language is disgusting yet he calls some women hookers?? In that itself you are simply not worth argueing with Kadiya, so just keep your dirty mouth shut from now on!
FYI I'm not a night-club kind of girl nor do I plan to be one. So hush now.
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25 Jul 2005 05:25:26 GMT Report for Abuse
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DumindaK one more thing...I don't think you're as bad as Kadiya, but you seem to be obsessed about parenting and that too aiming for perfection - don't aim too high, you could be disappointed some day...
You should be aware of the way the world operates...and not everything is dependant on perfect parenting...sometimes giving kids some freedom can bring out the best in them...take Shakespeare as an exmple. He was taken out of school by his own father, at the age of 13 because of financial problems...did he end up as a murderer? On the other hand if this was Sharmantha, then he would have ended up in streets. So it really boils down to the individual when it comes to dealing with a situation...upbringing matters but it certainly DOES NOT totally depend on parenting, schools or culture, it really depends on the individual...
I agree that the parents need to advise their kids and guide them the right way, but there's only SO MUCH a parent can do...after that it's really upto the individual.
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25 Jul 2005 06:00:38 GMT Report for Abuse
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Kadiya no matter how hard you try to look educated and informed by using famous quotes, you are just a racist, ignorant and foul-mouthed guy! I read your earlier comments about how you hate Tamils and the one where you called women tarts and hookers. What kind of hypocrite are you?
And you asked Socialite the following:
-Socialite, is your virginity still there?
-You may think it is still there but you do not know what -happens when you got drunk.
-Are you trying to teach moral values to us? How old are -you?
-We have passed your age long time back.
-Any way we don?t want to hear that a girl called -Socialite been killed by roadside.
-Women like you and your parents are responsible for -making innocent boys murderers.
What morality are you talking about when you cant even carry on a decent discussion without sexist abuse? Just look at the words you have used above - how disgusting that you ask a girl of her virginity this way in a public forum? Or do you feel like you have the upper hand to type any rotten line just because you're a MAN? And just because you have PASSED her AGE longtime back, do you think you know everything? Age does not prove anything and it's not directly linked to wisdom, so clearly as in your case! And you say it's women like Socialite that make 'innocent' men murderers? Are you justifying what Sharmantha did? Gosh are you for real??? It's arrogant men like you who keep their women locked up in the houses cooking and cleaning 24/7, eventually dying all stressed out, having enjoyed nothing in life!
Get a life man, you're a shame to all the Sri Lankan men...I pity your family if you have one. And your style of conversing is simply appalling!
Keshi. |
dumindak
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25 Jul 2005 06:51:27 GMT Report for Abuse
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Kadia
thank you for the support word buddy, keep it up
KESHI
You are not matured enough to understand many things in the society. You are still a student and living on your parents, you are too small to handle children issues. There are many things in the world that you have not seen yet.
Please read posting by Kella and Sacialate before charging me obsessive parenting. I dont know how you judged me as Obssesive parent
I like what you said,and at last you agreed with me( you did nt agree with me but you agreed with the truth)
you said'I agree that the parents need to advise their kids and guide them the right way, but there's only SO MUCH a parent can do...after that it's really upto the individual'
so that is what exactly I said, so you realized the truth at last.
I never said parents should guide children excessively and parents should do everything. I said parents should guide and advise children.
I fully agree with Kadia about aiming at high, and hope you also. |
Keshi
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25 Jul 2005 07:15:03 GMT Report for Abuse
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Kadiya I did say that I wont argue with your dirty mouth, but did you even realise that was way BEFORE your latest reply to me, in which you unsuccessfully used some famous quote to cover your dirty mind? Your 'HIHOHIHOHIHO' laugh suggests you are not only childish but also stupid, not to mention that AGE that you PASSED way before me and Socialite did, hasnt done any good to you :)
You know what, you have to CARE about what other women have to say here, especially if you're in a public forum! LOL you couldnt even get that! That statement in itself proves you're an ignorant, narrow-minded and egoistic Mr.-Know-it-all who knows nothing at all btw. If you ONLY care about what your wife thinks about you, why are you even here discussing Yvonne's death, when you don't even know her? Talk about it with your wife than coming here to ask stupid and dirty questions from young women.
You have a long way to grow up man - that's why they say it's not the years in your life that count, but the life in your years. Good luck with your minibar at home - as if I said one must have a night club equivalent at home LOL! You're just mental.
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25 Jul 2005 09:10:31 GMT Report for Abuse
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This thread of discussion has got tired. Everyone is just repeating the same argument with varying degrees of restraint and insight. Some have focussed on the subject under discussion, some have got personal and then there are some who have issues that prevent them from making a logical, objective argument. Some comments are just tasteless and crass
In essense everyone here is condemning this murder as senseless and probably preventable. Agreed?
Society, culture, influences and upbringing do have a part to play in how a man or woman is moulded but individuals are responsible for their actions. Agreed?
Going to nightclubs does not make you immoral but the fact remains that there are incidents of underage drinking, drug abuse and violence in nightclubs and this should be dealt with? Agreed?
All schools in sri lanka - both government and international - have advantages and limitations and students from boths sets of schools have achieved alot - Agreed?
Someone inquired politely why i and another participant were not contributing to this forum.THe reason being that
nothing new is being discussed here - and arguments have started to get petty, pointless and ignorant. i appreciate that when one is trying to make an informed, tolerant point it is infuriating when sweeping generalisations are made about people which have no basis in fact. However, my advice is restraint. There is no point getting worked up about it. Its just not worth it
Unless anyone has a fresh perspective that doesnt involve hating on something that is new or different to you, i suggest we just put this to bed now. |
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